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WOMEN SHOULD ROAR! by DG Wilson C 2/28/2009
If you haven't guessed by now I am a guy. And it literally HURTS ME when women are treated badly by "their" men. (That is in quotes because it really seems as if the men own YOU!) It hurts me, even though I am happily married...because it sometimes affects my wallet! Case in point:
I had a woman come by the art studio yesterday. She had some money set aside for her visit. Her boyfriend had asked for most of it earlier in the day. She gave it to him because he told her that he would come by the studio to pick her up and pay her then.
He did not, she was stranded AND could not buy what she wanted! I found out that she had been though this many times before. Too many. She said that they had a big fight over him doing this to her recently. It seemed as if she had leveled an ultimatum.
Still she stuck up for him and explained lamely, "He is young."
In my head I was going, "Soooooooooooooo?!!"
I ask you dear reader who seems to carry the blame now? She does in my mind. She ALLOWED it to continue instead of standing up for herself which affected me, I DIDN'T GET HER MONEY! That affects me and MY family!
Women should be much stronger than that. DEMAND respect and honor out of the men in your life and you will have helped much more than just yourselves. ALL would be better off. That is the point here. Women like my customer think that it only affects them and their families. But it doesn't. Men that don't keep their word, have enough money of their own drains the culture of our America. We all suffer because people are not being honorable. I reason, if you are not even honorable with a woman that shares her bed, then how can I expect honor from you when I WON'T sleep with you?! How in the hell can I compete with sex? So how can I expect to be respected when she can't get it herself?
Now this is coming from me, a tattoo guy. And I have said this years ago in my book: God is Dead Women Should Be Worshiped Instead! Yes, I believe religion was the cause for women's loss of power. (See www.MasterpiecesArtStudio.com Books Page.)
Other people are writing about this too and have been for decades. Recently I saw on Ophra that a famous comedian wrote yet another book. Of course he has a ton more money than I so you have probably heard or even read his. Understand, the message is the same.
Even men are sick of the way you degrade yourselves. Worse yet THEY are getting rich off of the advice... (and I stress they are, not me!) Sorry but it seems to be true. Women say they are powerful and important but no one takes you seriously. You don't even take yourselves seriously! That is really your fault. If you accept this kind of treatment time and time again from the very people that say they love you it makes you look weak.
You have strength in your own lives. You can do so much more than most men every day without thinking about it because you are designed to be organized, in control and to help others. Do you think any guy can get the kids up, dressed, fed, lunched, and on the bus before you go to work, then work all day to get the kids from school or some activity, homework done, dinner, dishes, quality time with them, and spouses, bath, bed and stories? Not to mention the shopping, cleaning, laundry, driver to the activities, daily planner AND the shrink for your husband? Hell no. That is why it is your job in most cases. You can do it, for men it is like pulling our own teeth out of your head, slowly with a lawn mower.
Most guys try to hide from the responsibility with their work, hobbies, and friends. Girls don't bond as much as men. Yet they can bond much better than men! Chris Rock another famous comedian had said that was because women hate each other. They see a single man they both want and will destroy the other to get him BECAUSE they think he is the last good man left. Now a man will only think that he has got to get a girl like his friends'. There is no fighting between the guys for a girl.
It seems to me that women in general believe that there are few good men and that they have to endure crap and fight each other to keep them. That is so far off base it is scary. Don't you realize that you think there are so few good men BECAUSE not enough women are training the male children how to respect women? Fathers can do more and will if they were EXPECTED to by their women!
Women need to understand that we see you as very strong, but allow yourselves to be treated weakly. Ask yourself, why would a lazy man try to impress you more than you require? What is the point. If you sleep with them after they exert 10% of their energy and money why should they give a 110%?
You women have to understand that you have always held all the power. You just need to work together for a little while to raise and train men to treat you well. That means mothers, teachers, sisters, friends need to constantly demand more respect and kindness from the men around them. For older men women hold even more control. Men want sex. They will do anything for it. Make them do EVERY thing for you to get that need...BEFORE you give him sex.
You have the control, always have. You can actually change the world immediately if you wanted. You have all men by their balls, even World Leaders. Imagine if Laura Bush used her influence over the ex president...how would the world be different if she used ALL of her influence and ALL of the influence of other women around him to NOT go into Iraq?
If only you united with other women then you could change the way you were treated by training the men in your lives to treat you the way you ladies want to be treated.
Basically see each other as support not competition. If you work together to improve the lives of the men in YOUR life, help them understand early on that women are demanding respect, then there will be MORE good men from which to choose. You will not NEED to fight another woman for a good man because they will all be good to you.
So if you are in a crappy relationship with a guy that treats you less than you like...grow a pair and dump him. (If you can't grow a set of balls I would be happy to tattoo some for you!)
It can lead to a better world...and quite possibly more money for me!
Thanks,
DG Wilson
www.MASTERPIECESARTSTUDIO.com
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